Episode 4

Taking Control of Your Dating Life To Find True Love

Season 3 07 March 2022 39 mins

with Abi Blears

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Finding true love is something that many people spend years – sometimes decades - looking for. Finding your match amidst the messy world of online dating, ghosting, bad dates, incompatibility and so much more has made modern dating very difficult. Whether you feel exhausted by dating, are struggling to forget your ex, or simply want to increase your chances of meeting someone incredible, my guest can help. Today I am joined by Matchmaker & Dating Coach Abi Blears, who she shares the do’s and don’t’s of a first date, red flags and blind spots in dating, how to channel your true desires, and why you need to listen to your inner when a relationship doesn’t feel quite right.

How Abi began her career [2:27]

How Abi coaches her clients [5:18]

Advice for finding your match [6:47]

They ways dating has changed [8:24]

The benefits of engaging a matchmaker [9:51]

Who would use a matchmaker [10:57]

The difference between matchmaking and coaching [12:56]

How to have a successful first date [16:20]

Recognising red flags [17:37]

Common blind spots of dating [21:47]

What drives us to have romance in our lives [26:12]

Self-love in dating [28:30]

Advice when you get hooked on one person [29:50]

Cautions on dating advice through the decades [32:31]

Top tips for dating [34:52]

What Abi has learned in her love journey [36:34]

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Hosted by ICF Master Coach, Mentor, Meditation & Ayurveda Teacher, Gillian McMichael, this podcast will inspire you to unlock your true purpose and ignite your infinite potential. Now is the time to grow, flourish and thrive as you find your way home, back to your true self.

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